A professional agency will have checked the identity of everyone you meet. However, it is still wise to take sensible precautions so we recommend you follow these safety guidelines whenever you meet someone new.
o Do not give out your surname initially.
o You may feel more comfortable giving your mobile number rather than your land line number.
o For the first meeting always meet in a public place, e.g. bar, restaurant, hotel bar etc.
o Ladies - meet where you feel comfortable, at your convenience - if he is a gentleman, he will agree.
o Don't be pushed into meeting somewhere you do not feel comfortable about.
o Never meet in a car-park, lay-by or anywhere isolated from the public.
o Park your car in a well lit area close to where you are meeting.
o Always make your own travel arrangements - never let your introduction give you a lift on your initial meeting - especially a lift home (so be careful not to drink too much alcohol).
o Always tell someone where you are going and if possible take a mobile telephone with you.
o Maybe get a friend to call you during the meeting, just to check you are OK.
o Do not give away any unnecessary personal details during the first meeting.
o Do not invite anyone to your home until you feel comfortable about doing so - never on the first date.
o Do not divulge information about your personal financial situation.
o Be careful how you dress for the first date, nothing too 'provocative'.
o Dating should be fun - don't feel pressured into taking the relationship further than you are comfortable with at the time.
Polly Draper
attractivepartners.co.uk attractivepartners.co.uk
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