Men - Take note!
You don't have to be drop dead gorgeous to join our agency BUT don't even think of joining if you comb your hair over a bald patch and 'fix' it with spray...ugh! Don't appear to be too eager! When you first meet someone, keep the conversation light. Whatever you do don't talk about future plans - "Hello Sandra - before I order the drinks do you mind if I ask you - do you want children?" is NOT a good idea!
Moaning Minnies are not attractive.
One of the worst turns off's for anyone is to listen to someone else's gripes. No matter what it is you are dissatisfied with, remember to keep it to yourself - no one likes a moaner and although the listener may appear to agree with everything you say, they will rarely ask you for a second date.
What do you sound like on the phone?
When was the last time you called your own home or mobile telephone number? It is the first impression a potential partner will have of you so it is very important that you sound worth meeting.
Don't try to change anyone
If you don't like a person the way they are perhaps they are not right for you.
Being patient often pays off
A few people expect too much, too soon from an introduction agency. They pay a fee and imagine that the agency can find them a perfect match immediately. Introduction agencies want to help you but sometimes it takes time. Make friends with the staff. They are there to help you and want to find you someone who is compatible with you. If you are not too fussy about the people you meet then don't join a professional agency - on-line dating and newspaper columns will provide you lots more dates but you may waste a lot of your time kissing a lot of frogs!
Men - remember this
Attractive women notice small things - so don't forget to use a nailbrush!
Women
Sorry but to a man a size 16/18 is never medium!
Please don't go on about past relationships
In fact, don't 'go on' about anything - if you do, don't be surprised if you don't get a second date!
Smile when you are talking on the phone
You will sound a whole lot happier and therefore a lot more worth getting to know.
Don't say "At my age"
It is so boring - Rather than finding someone to grow old with, isn't it better to find someone to stay young with? Remember - you will never be younger than you are today!
Flirting Tip
Everyone knows that eye contact is a sure-fire way to let someone know you are interested in them but looking directly into the eyes of a stranger can make even the most confident person feel awkward. Here is a small tip - next time you are talking to someone you fancy - check to see the colour of their eyes. Try it today - bet it works!
People who enjoy life are fun to be with
Ask yourself this, "Am I dull or fun to be with -would I go out with me"?
Most introduction and dating agencies agree....
..some people are just too inflexible. What a shame - they might be missing their perfect match because he or she is just a year older or an inch shorter than they have asked for. The agency staff are there to help you - listen to their advice and consider taking it...you would be surprised how often it pays off!
What are you looking for in a partner?
Before you answer - think carefully. It is worth remembering that in life we are often attracted and suited to people who do not meet all our preconceived ideas. How often have you fallen in love at first sight? With your past relationships did you even like each other immediately? Was your relationship based on attraction alone and if it failed, was that the reason? Have you ever grown to love someone and then noticed how attractive you find them?
We are not suggesting that you will grow to love every one you meet but we think you should give each introduction a chance. Try not to make an immediate decision based solely on your first impression. Of course there are people with whom you know there could never be a rapport - but in our experience the more open minded a person is, the more likely they are to find a satisfying and lasting relationship.
Polly Draper
Get further information and Free Brochure from our attractivepartners.co.uk Introduction Agency London site
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